How Finding Meaning in Routine Church Attendance Helped Me Grow in My Relationship with God
- Dionna Mariah
- Feb 21
- 3 min read
Growing up, church was just another place I had to be. I memorized the Sunday schedule but missed the message that truly mattered. I attended not out of a desire for connection but out of habit. However, reflecting on Mark 7:1-13 opened my eyes to how even a routine can foster a genuine relationship with God, transforming my spiritual journey.
Understanding Mark 7:1-13
In Mark 7:1-13, the Pharisees criticized Jesus for his disciples not washing their hands before meals according to tradition. Jesus rebuked them, emphasizing that their rituals had become empty. He quoted Isaiah: "These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me." This struck a chord for me. I realized I was participating in rituals without understanding their true purpose.
It reminded me that going to church abd Bible study should be about growing closer to God, not just following a routine or checking a religious box. Just like the Pharisees focused on traditions instead of true faith, we can sometimes go to church out of habit without letting God's word change our hearts. Church and Bible study should deepen our love for God and help us live out his commands, not just something we do to look "religious."
The Trap of Routine
It’s easy to fall into a comforting routine. Sunday mornings often blend together—getting dressed, sitting in the same pew, singing the same songs, and listening to the pastor’s sermon. While comforting, this routine can lead to complacency. I attended services out of obligation rather than genuine curiosity. A 2017 survey showed that nearly 66% of churchgoers admitted to feeling less engaged during services, which highlighted my struggle.
Seeking Deeper Connection
My journey took a turn when I actively sought a deeper connection during church and Bible study. I realized these teachings weren’t just stories; they were meant to inspire real change. During one session, I decided to write down my thoughts on key verses, which sparked a desire to experience God’s presence more vividly. I began asking questions and engaging in discussions, noticing how actively seeking understanding transformed my experience.
Mindset Shift
Changing my mindset was critical. Instead of viewing church as a weekly obligation, I began approaching it with anticipation. I prayed before services, asking God to open my heart and mind. With this shift, I looked forward to learning and connecting with my community. By focusing on what I could learn each week, my attendance became something I cherished rather than dreaded.

Community and Growth
Engaging more during services and Bible study allowed me to build meaningful relationships within my church community. As I shared my thoughts, I was inspired by others' insights, creating rich conversations. I recently read in a report that churchgoers who actively engage in community discussions are 40% more likely to feel connected in their faith. The accountability from my peers became a vital force in my spiritual growth.
Consistency in attending church had a powerful effect on my spiritual growth. Each service built my commitment to God, allowing me to witness my own transformation. Aligning my actions with my intentions helped me feel God's presence significantly more during my week.
As I sought to grow, my experience of worship changed. Singing hymns shifted from mere activity to heartfelt expressions of love for God. I found new meaning in every note, experiencing deep connections with the community. Worship became a powerful reminder of my purpose, strengthening my personal relationship with Him.
The Joy of Discovering God
As my relationship with God evolved, I began to feel immense joy in my faith. Recognizing the purpose behind routine attendance turned my experience into a treasure hunt. Each service revealing new insights and opportunities for growth. I discovered a depth in my relationship with God that I had not anticipated, providing a sense of joy I previously missed.

Reflecting on Transformation
Mark 7:1-13 reminds us that tradition alone cannot sustain our relationship with God. What matters is the posture of our hearts and the intent behind our actions. Acknowledging this shifted my church attendance from a mindless routine to a meaningful journey of growth. I now nurture a vibrant relationship with God, eager to learn and grow in my faith.
If you find yourself attending church out of habit, take a moment to reflect on your intentions. Consider how you can shift your mindset to embrace church as a life-giving experience. Open your heart to the possibility that even routine can lead to remarkable growth in your relationship with God if you allow it.
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